In the pre-Spotify days, when dinosaurs roamed the earth, I used to make a lot of variety tapes – “mixtapes” as they’ve come to be known retrospectively, though I don’t think they had that title back then. And this species was a far different animal than today’s ubiquitous “playlists.” Not that I don’t love the unfathomable access and efficiencies that Spotify offers: for music geeks like me, the idea of essentially having the history of recorded music a click away is the rough equivalent of having had the Farrah Fawcett poster come to life to our former 15-year-old selves.

But there was something, I guess you could say, more meaningful, about recording parts of albums (and later CDs) onto cassette tapes. Whereas one can search, click and drag to whip up a Spotify playlist in literal minutes, as well as return to it later to make changes to selections and sequencing, the tape was…a commitment! The notion of being capable of editing a tape was somewhere beyond splitting the atom; if you chose a song, and a placement for it, you lived with it forever. That was a given. And, in order to do so in the first place, you also had to – but, of course – own the actual record! The presence of this “hard copy” being the only imaginable way in which a tape-maker could then proceed to meticulously press “record” and “pause” on a tape deck, over and over and normally for periods of multiple hours or even days, in order to diligently capture and combine these precious songs into some cohesive unit.

And what about the duration? You want to throw together a dozen songs now and call it a Playlist? Sure, have at it. You need ten hours of driving tunes for a road trip? Coming right up. Not quite one size fits all, but all sizes fit any. But, (now employing an old-man voice) “back in my day” you had to work within the strict and unforgiving confines of either the 60- or 90-minute tape. Properly timing out choices for the expiring end of both Side A and Side B was nothing short of an art form: cut-off a song before its conclusion and stamp yourself a rank amateur, but leave too much dead space – more than 4-5 seconds in my book – and it’s nearly as ruinous. The optimal selection of the suitably-lengthed track to close a side was a daunting and demanding task, best strategized and planned for at least 3 or 4 picks in advance. A good short song was invaluable: numerous sub-2-minute Ramones songs were excellent tools, The Beatles and Creedence were often useful, and in my house, ‘The Entertainer,’ a clown horn and belch-filled knock-off of Scott Joplin by Reverend Horton Heat that clocks in at just 1:14, received an entirely asymmetric number of placements relative to its utter throw-away goofiness.

My son, Max, and I used that one a lot.

Some kids want to have a catch, some want you to play with their toys or read them a book. Max wanted us to tape. As a fairly regular occurrence in his earliest years, I’d return home from a long day’s work and commute, and he’d greet me at the door, having already written out lists of artists and songs onto my special office memo cards, breathlessly asking “Can we tape, dad?! Can we tape?!”

Aerosmith is a band for whom I’ll always retain a soft spot as they were Max’s first favorite band (despite the fact that they were not mine). Along with the rest of their entire discography, the album “Get a Grip,” released the year Max was born, was in constant rotation in the house. Still riding the band’s MTV-fueled renaissance, it would become Aerosmith’s best-selling studio album ever. That record opened with the stomping track ‘Eat the Rich,’ a furiously-paced romp that practically leapt out at me when I recently gave it a listen after happening upon it listed on one of our earliest tape-making productions. The cassette spine, displaying the title “Buddy’s Favorite Tunes,” was dated two months before Max had reached his 6th birthday.

Like ‘The Entertainer,’ ‘Eat the Rich’ also ends with a large burp, a juvenile yet unsurprising connection I’m only just realizing now.

Hearing it definitely jolted me back to the blank cassette era. Back to when trying to weave together a series of seemingly mismatched and imperfectly-timed songs was truly a process, but an honorable challenge worth undertaking. When finalizing a new tape playlist was significant, consequential, and permanent. Those were the days, the glorious mixtaping days.

But damn, I do love using Spotify.